Feedback Thoughts
Feedback can be good or disastrous, it all depends on how it's presented and the frame of mind of the receiver. As someone who grew up constantly criticized, I fear negative feedback pretty much above all. Mistakes were never tolerated in my house growing up. It was straight A's or disapproval and criticism. I had to clean house daily & my mother was not afraid of the white glove test (I'm 46, most college kids have probably never even heard of that!). In school, I was good at straight A's. I thrived on positive feedback & being basically a teacher's pet. Until I got to about middle school, that is. I learned to hide every paper and test that we got returned. I cringed with the teacher would use my paper as an example or call out the grades as they handed back papers. See, by then, the other kids had decided my good grades were something to ridicule me for. Can you just imagine the stress-if I didn't get str...